it’s not often that we get to take little trips together like this. and i’m not even talking about trips that people are used to, like say, a week or so, that’s kinda impossible with his job, just little 2-day trips. talk about ironic, since i have a job that gives me an obscene amount of free time, and a 2 consecutive off days like this is a luxury to him. so, we were kinda excited for this one, even though both of us aren’t exactly big fans of tokyo. we had ghibli and cirque du soliel planned, and disney if we still had the energy or time the next day. and i planned for us to take the bus back at 2:40 from tokyo so he could have ample time to rest up for his work week ahead.


back in the hotel on the first night, i asked him what he enjoyed the most that day. “めいと子猫バス”, he said. it is the cutest thing ever. if you’ve watched my neighbor totoro before, you probably would know the neko bus. in this short film we got to watch in studio ghibli, the baby cat bus makes his appearance and he has the grinniest grin. and furry balls too!
when i asked about the opposite, he said it was how we nearly couldn’t get onto the bus in the morning. yes, i made a huge blooper with my bus tickets reservation and it would have cost us our trip to tokyo, or at least totally screwed the schedule up.
and that sweetest guy never made a peep about it before i asked.
the most stressful part of the day for me was having to find a Family Mart in tokyo to pay for the return bus tickets right before our cirque du soliel show. it was obviously my fault, but as my stress level built up walking aimlessly around looking for a convenience store, he held my hand, and told me everything was gonna be alright. that’s why i love this guy, and that’s why till this day, we never actually did have a quarrel.
and when we finally found the store, paid for our reservation and was making our way back, he pointed out the smiling moon in the sky to me.
we made it back to aizu the next day and the same smiling moon was featured on tv. apparently, it’s a pretty rare phenemon and the last time it occurred was about 2 1/2 years ago.
「きっといいことがあるよ」 he said, smiling at me.
















we went to zao on the 11th and 12th to snowboard and soak up the hot spring. it just happened that his infrequent 2-day leave coincided with the high school entrance examinations (one of those times when the only person in the entire school with nothing to do is me). we reached Zao at 1-ish after a 3-hour drive to Yamagata prefecture, left all our stuffs at a ryokan and hit the slopes. Zao is huge. it was a little grey and snowy on that day, but still enjoyable. i would say that the snow was in good condition, considering that it is March already. the only complaint was that most of the runs we did were quite short. we definitely did a lot of lift-riding that day. my battery lifespan of 2-3 hours applies even on an unexplored mountain. i’m just grateful that he is always accommodating to me. if he was a board-crazy maniac raring to explore every single nook, corner and lift, i would have been very very miserable.







so i decided to visit a friend who was also returning to her hometown in 佐渡島(sadogashima), an island off the coast of a nearby city 新潟(niigata). she was happy to have me for a few days, and i was grateful not to be cooped up in my stuffy apartment during the time when ancestral spirits roam the land. my host in sado island is nozomi, which means hope in japanese. she’s a junior high school english teacher in aizu and i meet her every now and then for aikido practice. i met her very hospitable father, mother and brother, and also her super energetic, mailman-and-newspaperman-hating miniature pinscher, umi. he seemed particularly interested in my arm or leg when i was there, “hugging” it at every given opportunity.

one of the tourist attractions nozomi brought me to was the gold mine. sado island used to be an island for exiles. it served as a place of banishment for difficult political figures who lost in their struggle for power. a famous poet, an emperor, a buddhist monk and a noh dramatist were among the famous ones. in the edo era, a gold mine was found in the island and homeless people were packed up and sent to sado as labourers.







